The Art of Calibration ~ THE essential skill needed to apply ALL NLP techniques or tools effectively.
Any precision instrument or tool needs to be calibrated for it to be accurate and fit for purpose. However expert a marksman you may be, you're likely to miss the target every time if your rifle is not calibrated. So it is with your ability and effectiveness to communicate, create rapport, interact with or influence others, but with one big difference: humans can measure with infinitely more finesse and flexibility than any machine.
Learn to recognise and read those unconscious, non-verbal responses. How and what do we observe in others that can mean we 'read them like a book' and often find that we know more about them in the first few minutes of conversation than they know about themselves!

Developing the power of your Unconscious Mind . . . Y
One of the Presuppositions of NLP suggests is that all change is created at an unconscious level.
NLP and Hypnosis go hand-in-hand and both tap into the power of the unconscious mind so understanding the trance state is an important element in understanding the process of personal or behavioural change. This evening we will look at the relationship between your unconscious and conscious mind and how you can go inside and make changes.
As with most of our meetings, this will be a combination of giving you information, discussion and practical experience.

Using NLP Presentation Skills
Most of us are required to make presentations of some sort from time to time, if not regularly. This evening we will work on applying NLP patterning to enhance our abilities to create a memorable and positive learning experience for our audiences.
When making NLP Presentations we work to capture the whole of our audience by using multi representational system language to capture and anchor powerful learning states, communicating to both the conscious and unconscious minds of our clients.
Imagine the effect you can have when doing this well.
Keeping it at an easy level of detail, we ran through the 4 Mat system with it's 4 learning styles and try out some practical applications using the 'Why', 'What', 'How' and 'What If' frames in presenting, while addressing your personal congruency as presenter.

Motivation
This evening we worked on the patterns we employ to create motivation and those needed to maintain it in ourselves and in others.
This comes under the NLP heading of Meta Programmes, the ingrained habitual thinking patterns that we don't always know are there and could be described as the default settings of our brain.
How do you spur yourself into action?
How do you keep yourself going through challenges and distractions?
How well do you encourage others to do the same?

Creating Inspired Relationships - How to make your intimate relationship fire on all four cylinders
What is it that allows some relationships to flourish, while others flounder?
How can you remove judgement from your relationship?
How can you deepen understanding of your partner, predict their behaviour and influence them with elegance and grace?
While it may be true that opposites attract, unless you have practical non-judgmental way of addressing differences, things can rapidly get out of hand!David Klaasen and his wife Pam gave another fascinating session about the Language And Behavioural Profile (LAB), this time focusing on relationships. It is said that by using the language and behavioural profile you can learn more about someone in 20 minutes than 20 years of marriage. While David and Pam have only been married for 12 years, both of them have learned how to use the language and behavioural profile to transform their relationship.Tonight, they will be sharing some of the insights they have gained from the LAB Profile. You will get a chance to practice some of the key questions to ask that will help you uncover and recognise the fundamental motivational patterns that your partner is running. They will focus on some of the patterns that can easily cause friction in a relationship if they are out of sync. On this fun and highly interactive evening, we asked our partners some interesting questions and gained new insights that allowed an even more profound and deeper understanding of what really motivates them.

 CATCH UP & REVIEW Session

From time to time, it is worth while taking time to stop and review the NLP experiences and learnings that you have had recently. This evening we will do just that!

There we will revisit, discuss and do further or advanced exercises on some of the topics we've covered over the last 7 months and reflect on what changes in skill or attitude we have incorporated.

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 NLP Summer Picnic Event

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